The Tom’s Life Lab Podcast

Episode 14: Performance & presence, how letting go helps you go further - with George Bettany

In this episode of Tom’s Life Lab, Tom sits down with George Bettany, founder of the mindful running community Mara and a passionate advocate for presence, performance, and purpose.
They explore the deep connection between mindset and movement, and how running slowly, without judgment, can be one of the most transformative practices for both body and mind. George shares his personal journey from competitive footballer plagued by overthinking to coach and retreat leader helping others find freedom through mindful movement.
It's a rich, honest conversation about fear of failure, letting go of outcomes, and why presence isn’t about perfection, but about practice. Whether you’re a runner, a leader, or someone simply seeking more calm and clarity, this episode offers insight, inspiration, and practical tools for cultivating presence in everyday life.
 
Connect with George:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/georgebettany/ and https://www.instagram.com/mararunclub/ 
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgebettany/ 
Find out more about Mara via the website: https://mararunclub.com/ 
 
Books George mentioned: 
The Power of Now
Mindful Ultramarathon Running
 

Episode 13: Finding fulfilment, from struggles to success - with Kevin Palmieri

In this episode, Tom interviews Kevin Palmieri, founder of Next Level University, who shares his transformative journey from struggling with mental health and contemplating suicide to finding fulfilment through podcasting and entrepreneurship. Kevin discusses the importance of asking for help, the power of consistency, and the lessons learned from over 2000 podcast episodes. He emphasises that true fulfilment comes from making meaningful progress towards meaningful goals and the significance of growth and contribution in one's life.
Kevin’s story is a testament to the fact that fulfilment isn’t found in accolades, but in meaningful progress towards meaningful goals.
Find out more about Next Level University here: https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/ 
Next Level University podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/next-level-university/id1221110027 
Connect with Kevin on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/ 
 

Episode 12: Conscious living in the modern world - with Stacie Shifflett

In this episode of Tom’s Life Lab, Tom welcomes an extraordinary guest: Stacie Shifflett, multiple international best-selling author, entrepreneur, llama farm owner(!), and passionate student of life. Through her work at Modern Consciousness®, Stacie helps individuals discover their unique treasure map to joy, guiding them to live with greater awareness, purpose, and intention.
The conversation explores how conscious living is not simply about setting goals or chasing achievements, but about creating rich, meaningful experiences that build momentum in life. Stacie’s holistic approach invites people to take the blinders off, reconnect with all 360° of themselves, and embrace the art of transformation, no matter where they are in their journey.
Together, Tom and Stacie discuss what it means to live consciously in today’s fast-moving world, how to shift focus from outcomes to experiences, raising awareness of self-talk, and why it’s never too late to craft a life you truly love.
Listeners can also access a free resource from Stacie: Navigating Your Emotional Triggers: The One Skill That Changes Everything. This transformative workbook is designed to help calm emotional triggers.
Find out more about Modern Consciousness.
Connect with Stacie Shifflett on LinkedIn.

Episode 11: Culture Cake: The recipe for great culture starts below the icing with Sarah Chadbourne

In this inspiring episode of Tom’s Life Lab, Tom sits down with Sarah Chadbourne, a seasoned HR leader and emerging author, to talk about her bold new project: writing a book called 'Culture Cake'. Drawing on nearly two decades in HR, much of it in the fast-paced world of tech, Sarah shares her unique take on what truly shapes workplace culture.
Using the metaphor of baking, she explains why organisations often get distracted by the “icing” (the shiny perks and branding) and miss what really matters: the ingredients of the cake itself. Things like leadership behaviour, trust, communication and inclusion. They dive into what makes a culture thrive, why employee experience is the output, not the input, and how Sarah’s combining practical stories, research, and reflection into a resource that’s as useful as it is relatable.
This conversation is full of energy, humour, and encouragement for anyone thinking of taking the leap into something new. Sarah’s mantra? “There’s no better place to start than to just start.”
Connect with Sarah on LinkedIn.

Episode 10: Acting, Auditions, and Art as a Way of Life – with Matt Drago

This week on Tom’s Life Lab, Tom is joined by actor, storyteller, and creative powerhouse Matt Drago, whose passion for performance, persistence, and purpose shines through in every word.
From humble beginnings in rural Virginia to New York stages and LA film sets, Matt shares his inspiring journey into the world of acting, including the hustle of auditions, the joy of performance, and the life-changing mentors who helped shape his path. We also hear about his latest film Somewhere in Montana, the power of collaboration, and why art—and human connection—matters now more than ever.
Listen now and get inspired!
You can find out more about Matt and connect with him here:
https://mattdrago.com/
https://www.instagram.com/mattdrago 
https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3196549/ 
https://www.facebook.com/mattdragofans 
 

Episode 9: The Authoritative Coach - with guest Chris Marr

Chris Marr is the Authoritative Coach and the author of Become an Authoritative Coach: Stop people pleasing, challenge your clients, and be indispensable.
In this candid interview, he shares with me how he was inspired to become a coach and what being the Authoritative Coach really means. We talk about challenging ourselves and those around us and how we can be truly effective in supporting others.
We also go into people-pleasing. What it is, how it shows up, and why it's so dangerous. And because the Life Lab is about exploring life's possibilities, Chris shares some great tips on how to fight against people pleasing tendencies and be more successful in life and work.
We're thrilled to have Chris on the Life Lab as our first guest. You can find out more about Chris on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/theauthoritativecoach/ or on his website https://theauthoritativecoach.com/. Buy his book here.

Episode 8 - letting go: stop wasting energy on the uncontrollable

Tom's Life Lab: Episode Show Notes
In this episode, Tom explores how to let go of things we can't control and embrace the discomfort of uncertainty. Life doesn’t always go as planned, but learning to focus on what you can control brings peace and clarity.
Why letting go isn’t about giving up
How to stop fighting against the uncontrollable
Real-life examples of letting go with emotions, relationships, and the future
Tom’s personal struggles with rumination and how he stays present
The "control audit" exercise to shift focus and reduce stress
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Episode 7: It's time to stop buying gym kit and just get to the gym

Ever found yourself stuck in endless preparation mode; buying all the right gear, researching every detail, and setting up the perfect plan only to never actually take action? In this episode of Tom’s Life Lab, we’re talking about the hidden danger of over-preparing and under-doing.
Whether it’s fitness, a creative project, or a big life goal, preparation can feel productive, but at some point, you have to stop planning and start doing. Plus, I’ll introduce you to the 48-Hour Rule, a simple technique to get you from thinking to doing—fast.
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Until next time: less prepping, more doing!

Episode 6: Stop talking to yourself like you're nothing

In this episode of Tom’s Life Lab, we explore the powerful impact of self-talk on our emotions, behaviorus, and overall mindset. That little voice in your head? It’s shaping your world every day, whether you realise it or not. If you’ve ever struggled with self-doubt or found yourself stuck in negative thought cycles, this episode is for you.
We break down:✅ How negative self-talk strengthens limiting beliefs and impacts brain chemistry✅ The science behind rewiring your brain with positive self-talk✅ A simple yet effective technique to shift your inner dialogue and build confidence
Your words shape your reality. Choose self-talk that lifts you up rather than holds you back.
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Episode 5: Go on, try something new

In this episode, Tom explores the power of stepping outside your comfort zone. Trying new things can foster growth, build confidence, and open doors to unexpected opportunities. Tom shares his journey of writing a book, something that started as a challenge but became a rewarding experience.
If fear or self-doubt has held you back, this episode will inspire you to take the leap.
Key takeaways:
Growth happens when we challenge ourselves.
Fear of failure is normal—focus on learning, not perfection.
Small steps can lead to big changes.
Tom’s book-writing journey taught him resilience and joy.
Identify one new thing you’ve wanted to try and go for it!
Action step:Pick something new, take the first step, and reflect on what you learn.
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